Friday, July 18, 2008

Child Custody Factors in Maryland Divorce

As we know custody in a Maryland Divorce occurs on two different levels. There is legal custody and physical custody. Before a judge makes a determination as to what is in the child's best interest the judge will consider a number of factors on both of these issues. As to physical custody: The factors a judge considers as to physical custody are as follows:1) fitness of the parents; 2) character and reputation of the parties; 3) desire of the natural parents and agreements between the parties, 4) potentiality of maintaining natural family relations, 5) preference of the child, 6) material opportunities affecting the future life of the child; 7) age, health and sex of the child; 8) residences of parents and opportunity for visitation; 9) length of separation from the natural parents; and 10) prior voluntary abandonment or surrender.

While the court considers all the above factors, it will generally not weigh any one to the exclusion of all others. The court should examine the totality of the situation in the alternative environments and avoid focusing on any single factor such as the financial situation.

In my experience the judge will reward reasonable behavior by a parent in promoting the relationship between the child and the otherwise non custodial parent. Oddly the best way to win the war is not to battle. That does not mean go to war unprepared. And this does not apply to every case. There are circumstances where a parent actually does cause harm to the child. In this case there must be contact that is controlled. However, you must think in terms of what is best for the child. Understand judges generally believe that a child benefits from both parents being involved in their lives. The party that promotes relationships and encourages contact, tempered by reasonable decision making, is far ahead in the custody battle.

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